Author: IH Psychotherapy Team

  • The gentle power of a morning walk

    Many of us experience the morning as a rush to get ready and out the door. It can feel chaotic and overwhelming. But what if I told you that stepping outside for a walk could transform your day? A morning walk is more than exercise; it’s a gentle invitation to…

  • How to tame our inner critic

    We all have that voice in our heads, the one that whispers (or sometimes shouts) criticism and doubts. This is our inner critic, and while it can feel harsh, it’s often trying to protect us in its own way. As a therapist who uses Internal Family Systems (IFS), I want…

  • Taming the tiger: Overcoming social anxiety

    Today I want to talk to you about a very common struggle – social anxiety. That knot of worry in your stomach before a party, the self-consciousness that makes you blush during a presentation – these are all signs of social anxiety, and let me assure you, you’re not alone.…

  • The power of “I love you”: Why three little words can make a big difference

    As a therapist, I witness the profound impact of love daily. But sometimes, the simplest expressions can hold the most weight. Today I want to talk about the importance of saying, “I love you” to the people who matter most. For some, these three little words may feel awkward and…

  • Understanding ourselves to deepen our connections: Attachment styles and healthy relationships

    Have you ever felt a certain way in a relationship and wondered why? Maybe you crave constant reassurance, or perhaps closeness feels stifling. These experiences might be connected to something deeper: our attachment styles. Attachment theory tells us that the way our caregivers respond to our needs as infants shapes…

  • Unveiling yourself: The power of self-awareness in psychotherapy

    As a therapist, I witness the transformative power of self-awareness firsthand. It’s like stepping into a room you’ve always inhabited, but suddenly seeing it bathed in a warm light, revealing hidden corners and beautiful artwork. Self-awareness allows you to understand yourself with greater depth and compassion, and that’s the foundation…

  • Grieving after divorce: It’s okay to not be okay

    As a therapist, I witness firsthand the deep pain people experience after a marriage breaks down. It’s a loss unlike any other, a shattering of dreams and the future you envisioned. You might be feeling lost, confused, and wondering how to move forward. One way to understand the emotional rollercoaster…

  • Finding distance: The power of externalizing labels in therapy

    We all carry stories. Sometimes, these stories are filled with joy and laughter, but often, they hold threads of struggle and pain. In therapy, we explore these narratives together, navigating the challenges that might hold us back. One powerful tool we can use on this journey is externalization. Externalization means…

  • Healing from trauma: Your body holds the key

    As a therapist, I see firsthand the profound impact trauma can have on our lives. It’s not just an emotional experience; it also leaves a mark on our bodies. But here’s the good news: Our bodies are also incredibly resilient and hold the key to healing. In the following post,…

  • Feeling overwhelmed? Unplug and recharge with mindfulness

    Hey everyone! Let’s talk about anxiety – that feeling of constant worry and unease that can leave you feeling like you’re running on a hamster wheel. If you’re reading this, you probably know exactly what I’m talking about. The good news? You’re not alone, and you already possess a powerful…