Category: therapy

  • Coping with bullying

    As the new school year begins, it’s important to address the serious issue of bullying. Bullying can have a profound impact on a person’s emotional well-being, self-esteem, and overall quality of life. If you or someone you know is experiencing bullying, know that you’re not alone, and there are steps…

  • A therapist’s perspective on children’s fear of loss

    It is incredibly common for children to express fear about the loss of a parent or caregiver. This deep-rooted anxiety often stems from their strong attachment and reliance on you. It’s a testament to the powerful bond you share. Understandably, addressing these fears can be challenging for parents and caregivers.…

  • Nurturing emotional well-being in our children

    Raising children is a beautiful and challenging journey. As parents and caregivers, we yearn to equip our children with the tools that they need to thrive. Beyond academic success and material possessions, fostering emotional well-being is a cornerstone of their future happiness and fulfillment. Emotional stability is the bedrock on…

  • Postpartum depression: You are not alone

    Becoming a parent is a transformative experience filled with immense joy and love. However, it can also be a challenging period marked by significant physical and emotional changes. For many women, postpartum depression (PPD) can cast a shadow over this beautiful time. It’s crucial to understand that PPD is not…

  • Perfectionism and procrastination: Your inner critic

    Are you feeling overwhelmed by a never-ending to-do list? Do you constantly strive for perfection, only to feel paralyzed by the fear of falling short? If so, you’re not alone. Many of us grapple with the interplay of perfectionism and procrastination. Perfectionism, often seen as a positive trait, can become…

  • How to tame our inner critic

    We all have that voice in our heads, the one that whispers (or sometimes shouts) criticism and doubts. This is our inner critic, and while it can feel harsh, it’s often trying to protect us in its own way. As a therapist who uses Internal Family Systems (IFS), I want…

  • The power of “I love you”: Why three little words can make a big difference

    As a therapist, I witness the profound impact of love daily. But sometimes, the simplest expressions can hold the most weight. Today I want to talk about the importance of saying, “I love you” to the people who matter most. For some, these three little words may feel awkward and…

  • Understanding ourselves to deepen our connections: Attachment styles and healthy relationships

    Have you ever felt a certain way in a relationship and wondered why? Maybe you crave constant reassurance, or perhaps closeness feels stifling. These experiences might be connected to something deeper: our attachment styles. Attachment theory tells us that the way our caregivers respond to our needs as infants shapes…

  • Finding distance: The power of externalizing labels in therapy

    We all carry stories. Sometimes, these stories are filled with joy and laughter, but often, they hold threads of struggle and pain. In therapy, we explore these narratives together, navigating the challenges that might hold us back. One powerful tool we can use on this journey is externalization. Externalization means…

  • Exposure therapy and CBT: Two superpowers we therapists use to battle anxiety

    Here’s the thing: anxiety is natural. It’s our body’s way of saying, “Hey watch out!” But sometimes that alarm gets stuck on “high,” making everyday situations terrifying. But the good news is, there is a way to combat it. Today, I want to talk about two awesome tools therapists use…